So Far

I forget if I have posted the plans for this extended holiday weekend here or not (yes, it’s Columbus Day on Monday… technically a holiday weekend…) so in case I haven’t I will post retroactively:

  • Thursday:
    • My sister and family come to town late at night, we hung out in the kitchen enjoying some homemade skyline chili and various other treats.

  • Friday (ALEX’S BIRTHDAY!):
    • A special “Buffalo Bills pancakes” breakfast with the cousins
    • A trip to the community center to play in the gym (which was ruined first by an aerobics class taking up the whole gym, to which we adjusted by playing foosball and other things, until we could no longer take the way the staffer on duty kept making us feel thoroughly unwelcome in our own COMMUNITY center!!)
    • A nice walk through our town, tossing footballs to each other, followed by playing in our yard with all the kids (since we couldn’t use the community center!)
    • Homemade Skyline for lunch (and some other stuff), and making Alex’s birthday cake
    • Various games while the youngest ones slept
    • Grammy & Grandpa arrived for cake, ice cream, and opening presents!
    • Head out for dinner at Red Robin, only to find the wait at least one hour… so we went to Wendy’s instead!
    • Chuck E. Cheese, where the Velasquezes joined us! Tons of games, and lots of tickets won! Alex got a little tiny football for his efforts. ๐Ÿ™‚
    • Kids in bed, adults play Apples to Apples and enjoy some nice adult conversation, as well as a few caramel pecans from Esther Price!!! (Thanks, Mom!) ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Saturday:
    • Grammy & Grandpa are still in town, so we’ll be spending the day with them at their camp site. Swimming, mini golf, and other fun stuff!

  • Sunday:
    • Breakfast with Grammy & Grandpa before they leave
    • Apple picking with friends, an annual tradition!
    • FOOTBALL!! (But not the Bills…)

  • Monday:
    • Free lunch in the late morning from the new Lowes (grand opening special invite to local businesses)
    • Drive to Clarence for a fun Columbus Day Kids Festival event at Grandma & Grandpa’s church
    • Naps, and/or hanging out with family/friends in the afternoon
    • MONDAY NIGHT FOOTBALL: COWBOYS @ BILLS … watching with friends in HD, eating CHICKEN WINGS! Then, driving home after the game.

Yeah, that about does it. ๐Ÿ™‚

Happy Birthday, Alex!

Alexander Caedon Campbell

It’s going to be a big day, for a big guy. Our little Alex is turning six today! He is a super fun guy who lives life with passion. (Of course, that means he can get pretty fiery mad, too, but mostly it’s super happy, bring-everyone-along-with-him passion!)

My sister and family are in town, and later today my parents will visit … should be a nice day of celebrating Alex!

Love you, Alex! Happy Birthday! ๐Ÿ™‚

Changing Seasons

Chill & Grill!Fall has begun, and that means that we’re coming to the very end of the ice cream season. It’s been a good one. Many visits from the Chis. My Dad has been up several times for ice cream. Friends from all over the region have met us there – including a surprise visit from our friends the Towners one night! – and we of course did our annual concert there with our friends in the band Sound Mind.

It’s been a good year.

But now, this Sunday (Sep 30)… Chill & Grill will be closing for the season. ๐Ÿ™ ๐Ÿ™

We’ll be heading up there for sure on Sunday, and maybe tomorrow night as well. Been fitting in a few more ice cream trips this week, knowing it will be closing again for 5 months or so. Too bad. I would still get ice cream in the winter…

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If you’re a fan, come out today or tomorrow and grab the last remnants of the ice cream! (Flavor selection is rather slim these days!) We’ll be there Sunday for sure!

Also, be sure to check out the Chill & Grill Fan Page I created on Facebook!

Looking forward to Sunday, and already looking forward to next season!

I do love me some ice cream… ๐Ÿ™‚

Happy Birthday, CAYA!

Come As You AreToday is the 5th anniversary of one of our albums, Come As You Are. CAYA, as it is known around here, is CD that I recommend to people who don’t have any of our CDs. I think the Christmas album is my favorite overall, but this one is the best collection of songs that captures most of our sound. From one instrument and two vocals, to nice acoustic rhythm stuff, to a full-on electrified rock out song (or two). It’s definitely a favorite.

We had a big CD release party on August 29th, 2002, and I think around 200 people came to celebrate with us. If you were there, thanks for coming! If you didn’t yet get your copy of CAYA, you still can!! ๐Ÿ™‚ We have some, and you can just order through our site. Or, you can always pick it up at iTunes. Or just a track or two, if you want.

(By the way, I just noticed when getting the iTunes link… there are no reviews there on that page. Anyone who knows the album care to leave one? That’d be swell!) ๐Ÿ™‚

So, it’s a fun day in the basic world, and just thought I’d share. Five years is a long time. But actually, the songs on the album are as old as 14 years old now! That’s awesome! ๐Ÿ™‚

Happy Birthday, CAYA. ๐Ÿ™‚

Evidence

Here’s a little bit of evidence that I have been unable to get to my blog very much this past week or so…

Yesterday, August 26th, went by without me noticing even once that it was the fourth anniversary of my blog’s existence! ๐Ÿ™‚ I had been looking ahead to that date all month, planning to say something about it… but… welll….

I didn’t remember.

Sorry, blog! (Can you say sorry to a blog?) ๐Ÿ™‚

More to come soon… I’m working on the Buffalo Bills Review right now. Fun show this week! Maybe the most fun ever! ๐Ÿ™‚ Even added some “out takes” to the end of this show. ๐Ÿ™‚

Fun stuff.

So, happy bloggiversary to GregsHead.net. Four years in the books. Or, on the web. Or something. ๐Ÿ™‚

Hiroshima: Part 2

HiroshimaOn the anniversary of the bombing of Hiroshima – Aug 6th – I mentioned that I picked up a book by the name of the city from our local library. It was a fairly short book, detailing the events of the lives of several survivors of the horrible day. It was fairly objective (quite unlike what a similar literary work would be today, I’m sure!) and just told the story plainly, as experienced by those witnesses, and tragically coerced participants.

The most interesting part was that the author visited one year after the bombing to get the stories, and even then, no one (according to the author) was really debating the morality of the atomic bomb. Whether out of a fear of all that had transpired, or truly just not questioning the ethics of such a weapon, there apparently was not much discourse regarding whether or not it “should” have been used.

Funny, cause that’s all I can think about.

I mentioned in my previous post that it had been a long war. War is ugly, and I’m sure it numbs you to the reality of what you are doing. But still, I can not fathom making the decision to obliterate a city and 100,000 of its inhabitants with one swift, instantaneous motion.

I can understand the people who made the weapon. There had been credible rumors that the Germans were working on such technology, and if they had gotten it first – the “Master Race” – it could have been beyond disastrous. So, it made sense for us to race to complete it first. And, we did. (I think it was later discovered that the Germans were not near as close as we had feared.) So, perhaps once the scientists had completed their work – in the form of a functioning “atomic” bomb – they had time to debate the moral implications of their achievements. But I can also see there how not attempting to “discover” the weapon first would have been equally (or perhaps even more) morally questionable.

But once the bomb was ready, and able… that’s where I am glad I did not have to be the decision maker.

From President Truman deciding to drop the bomb on a real city, with hundreds of thousands of people. (And then three days later to drop another one, even after seeing the total devastation!) To the pilots who left the ground, with the knowledge that their mission was to wipe out a city with one bomb. To the technician who had to activate the weapon once they left the ground. (They had not activated it for fear of any sort of accident at take off… would have been messy.) Once he activated it – or even while he was in process – how must that have felt? Knowing he was, by his weapon activation, condemning up to 100,000 people and their city, even their history, to death? What of the pilot(s?) who actually “flipped the switch” (or whatever they did) to drop the bomb?

I’m just glad it wasn’t me.

In retrospect, you can say, “Look, within days the war was over. So, the end justifies the means.” Well, yes. You can say that. But it’s just so hard to swallow when you think that the bomb was used on real people. Not a target. They were not “casualties”. They were moms and dads, children, grandchildren, brothers, sisters… just people. The book was very interesting. Reading how people reacted to such sudden catastrophe, helping each other out as much as they could… too fractured and instantly plunged into chaos to even question really what happened, or why it happened… they just kicked into survival mode. Which included helping the nearest stranger to survive.

One interesting thing after the Japanese surrendered, was the assistance of the Allied forces (likely led by America) in rebuilding Hiroshima, as well as attempting to understand – and find a cure for – the mysterious radiation sickness that had afflicted so many survivors. It seemed so ironic that we who had invented – and implemented – such a device, were right there in the aftermath trying to help “clean up”. I think that is the “American Spirit”, but I’m not sure what the big bomb part was.

I just wonder why we couldn’t have bombed some more remote part of their mainland… wiping out some trees or something? I’m sure many have considered and debated all the possibilities for decades now. But, wouldn’t that have demostrated the same power as actually blowing up cities? Maybe not.

So, anyway, I think I’ll read a few more stories from that time. It’s fascinating to me how we can do that to each other. We continue to do so, just not on that grand scale. Yet.

I may see something even worse in my lifetime. Who knows, it may be here in our own country. That doesn’t seem possible right now, but you never know.

Some day war will end. For now, perhaps we can remember the atrocity of it, and avoid similar atrocities in the future?

Probably not.

Hiroshima: August 6th, 1945

HiroshimaAfter recently watching those two movies about the battle for Iwo Jima, I found it intriguing when I discovered that today is the anniversary of the day the US dropped the first atomic bomb on the city of Hiroshima, Japan. I clicked on the link in my “This Day In History” widget, and read about this day 62 years ago. I listened to President Truman’s speech following the decision to drop the bomb. I watched some videos from the history channel online. Again, I was fascinated.

What most blew my mind was the position of Harry Truman. How do you actually ever feel you have the authority to make such a decision? How did he actually pull the trigger? I read one article that reminded me that the America of the 1940s was not the same one as today. In many ways that’s really sad. But perhaps in the way of viewing people of various ethnic backgrounds as equals… we are certainly better off today than we were then. So some have suggested it was easier because they were just “Japs”.

I should hope not, but certainly a possible explanation.

Because really, how do you decide to do that? The logic given in his post-dropping speech was that the Japanese would fight to the death. Killing up to “half a million” US soldiers. Dropping the bomb saved lives. While I agree that this is true, I do side with critics who believe that estimate is ridiculously high.

When he gave the order to drop the bomb, I’m sure it was not taken lightly. I’m sure agonizing thought went into it. And, it had been a long war. It was time for it to be over, and this weapon could pretty hastily ensure that it would be.

But at what cost?

I am not sure I could ever make such a decision. In retrospect, you’re glad it ended the war, but as is everything surround a war, it’s just so sad and ugly.

I borrowed a couple books from the library tonight on Hiroshima. One is just named Hiroshima by John Hershey. Supposed to have some eye witness accounts. Was written as the rubble was still smoldering. The second is a series of two books, The Memoirs of Harry Truman. That, too should prove interesting, as the hardest thing about Aug 6th 1945 for me to grasp is what actually was going on in Truman’s mind? How do you make that call??

I’ll likely share some thoughts from the books soon… just thought I’d post this on the day we dropped the bomb.

Happy 62nd anniversary of the first atomic bomb! (Now there’s something to celebrate!) ๐Ÿ˜‰

Ring Day

Today was Ring Day. My mom calls it our Engagement anniversary. But we never really said anything like that… “We’re engaged!” We just sorta decided to get married. In 1997. Around July 16/17. Then we went to pick out some rings. And they had to do something to get them ready… so… we waited.

Until July 26th.

When I got the rings, I went down to camp where Jen was working with a bunch of tiny, crazy kids for the weekend. I pulled her aside after the activity of the hour and said, “I got our rings. Here’s yours.” ๐Ÿ™‚

Romantic, eh? ๐Ÿ™‚

So, we celebrated the 10th anniversary of Ring Day today by getting a babysitter for a couple hours after dinner, and going out for some rings. No, not more jewelry. We went to Applebee’s and got their onion rings, and even got a dessert which was a cake in the shape of a ring (filled with fudge in the middle!). Both desserts totaled $10 – which was cool for the 10th year of our life together as one. ๐Ÿ™‚

So… one more big day to come… and we’re celebrating that one for a week! California here we come!!!

Ice Cream Celebrations…

It’s probably starting to feel like all I do around here is talk about ICE CREAM! Well, for this month, I guess that’s true ๐Ÿ™‚ It is National Ice Cream Month, and I have had ice cream EVERY DAY this month. 19 days in a row, and counting!

For tonight, we made a gallon of vanilla ice cream, and about half a gallon of strawberry last night. We’ll be bringing the finished product over to our friends’ house and enjoying that with them (and some other friends) and using the rest of the strawberry “base”? in a little kids hand-crank ice cream maker to make the rest! Should be fun. ๐Ÿ™‚

Speaking of fun, I meant to give a little update on how our 10th anniversary of our decision to wed went. It was a nice two day, for the most part. On the 16th, I arranged to take Jen out for a nice lunch, and got her 10 roses in a nice vase for our 10 years. She loves flowers, and we are hardly ever able to get them, so I think that was really special. Cool part was, the flowers arrived at almost the same time as the babysitter! Couldn’t have timed it any better!

Previously I had arranged with some other friends to get a little extended time out for the night of the 17th. We got to spend about four hours eating at Olive Garden, doing a little grocery shopping (WITH NO KIDS), and even stopped by a favorite coffee house on the way back to get our kids. It was a nice end to the two-day celebration.

I think it’s really cool that Jen and I get to be married. I think it’s also cool that we decided to do that in the month of July… NATIONAL ICE CREAM MONTH! Now every year, we can celebrate that anniversary with one of the best foods ever invented! ๐Ÿ™‚

Time to head over to the party. More ice cream!!! ๐Ÿ™‚

Ten Years and Counting

Jennifer Campbell
Today I got to tell the story of how God arranged for me to marry Jen. Our friends Ryan & Charmagne (he’s not Ryan… he’s Chi.) were over for the day and somehow I mentioned that Jen & I never dated, and that piqued Charmagne’s interest, enough that she asked me to share our story. How did we come to the decision to just get married, without dating?

It’s a long story, that I will save for our book, but basically, the re-telling of that story helped remind me of a lot of great things God taught me during the time he prepared me for, and “brought” Jen to me. (Genesis 2 says that God “brought [Eve] to the man” and Jen and I believe He still does that today, if we let Him.)

Ten years ago today, July 16th, was an amazing day that I had many times thought might happen – and many times thought would never happen. When I met Jen in 10th grade – at age 16 – I was told she was “the kind of girl you could marry”. Our introducing friend did not specifically mean me – it was the generic “you” – but, it was prophetic.

Ten years ago today we were hanging out together as friends, rehearsing a song we would sing together for the wedding of some friends, and as we talked – like we had done so many times before – we opened our hearts to each other and were able to share the love we had then, and have deepened since.

Jen said to me, “I can trust you with my heart.” I said, “As my love for God grows more than I could have imagined, I am amazed how my love for you grows too.” And later in the conversation, “This [what we were then saying] sounds like marriage, to me… can that be??”

It can.

Within 24 hours, we had thought through not only the shared thoughts and feelings of the past night, but the thoughts, feelings and experiences of the past seven years. Spending life together, as husband and wife – best friends, confidants, partners, mates… was perfect. Who better to go through life with than your best friend? The person you most enjoy being with, and sharing your life with?

That person for me is Jen. I am a people person, and love to be with people and have a chat over a bowl of ice cream, or a cup of tea or something. But there is no one I can confide in more. There is no one I want to be with more. Sometimes we don’t get to enjoy that as much these days (10 years and 4 children later…) but it is more true than ever.

I love you, Jen. Every part of you. I am blessed beyond words that you decided to marry me 10 years ago. We have both grown in our understanding of and ability to love each other over that time, and I can’t wait to see what the next 10 years brings us. You are constantly in my thoughts, and I am not me without you. You might not feel like that’s true, but it is probably a deeper truth than I can even know.

Thank you for loving me for ten years. I hope we get ten more. And then another ten more. And then another. I could not possibly have been given a better person to spend my life with. God is amazingly good – and we know his timing is perfect.

I love you today, ten years ago, and from here forward as long as I am able.